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To love you AND hate you?

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LoopyLoopsRootyFroots · 10/11/2011 00:15

It really unsettles me when I decide I really dislike a particular poster, then find her on another thread and realise that, not only do I like what she's saying, but I think we're very similar. I want to dislike her but can't.

Is it more unreasonable to dislike you or change my mind?

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SarahStratton · 10/11/2011 00:19

I think it's a sign of weakness, to not be able to change your opinion based on what you see.

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LoopyLoopsRootyFroots · 10/11/2011 00:21

Good, that's what I wanted to hear. Thanks SS, case closed! Grin

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SarahStratton · 10/11/2011 00:22

Grin

It had better not have been me btw.

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fuzzynavel · 10/11/2011 00:23

Well loopy, guess we all have different opinions due to how our lives have been shaped etc. what's actually going on at the time of posting and our moods of course.

I recently went on a thread about star signs and was very amused by the fact that most of the people I don't like but sneakily admire now and again were all listed there.

So lets go with the constant changing of minds on this one.

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fuzzynavel · 10/11/2011 00:25

Ruddy hate you though sarah Grin

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LoopyLoopsRootyFroots · 10/11/2011 00:26

Of course not you SS!

I was just flabberghasted at the realisation that the one person who really pissed me off yesterday I really like today. But then you're right fuzzy, different topics bring out different sides if us.

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fuzzynavel · 10/11/2011 00:32

I guess that when you've been on here for as long as some, I'm a relative newbie (approx a year), you tend to get certain signals and come to cyber know people and excuse stuff due to the amount of overall sense they talk.

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