DH and I have been married two years, together ten. We've had our ups and downs but we are generally happy.
Tomorrow is our actual anniversary and I have been bugging him for weeks about booking somewhere (nice, local, not expensive) for dinner to celebrate. Nothing was booked, nothing was mentioned. Eventually we were out for a walk yesterday and went past an Italian restaurant which looked quite nice so I went in and booked a table.
This morning I woke up early and made us brekkie, I put his on a tray and brought it in to him in bed. Then I got the papers and was sitting down reading when he says he is going out for most of the day to play golf. Absolutely fine, I have plans with a girlfriend.
HOWEVER. I have just gone into the kitchen and he has made no attempt at all whatsoever to clean up. The tray is on our bed with the plate having slipped off and left a ketchup stain on our duvet cover. His clothes are all over the bedroom floor and generally everything is a complete tip.
WWYD. I am a) pissed off that he showed no interest whatsoever in our anniversary and b) highly pissed off that he waltzed out and left everything in a tip.
I am considering cancelling the booking at the Italian place and sending him a text to inform him.
I do not especially want to come across like a nagging wife though, that will be his stock response: Stop nagging me.
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tak1ngchances · 05/06/2011 10:38
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