to find most of my male friends so unreliable??

[bitofthisandthat]

Am waiting for one right now, he was meant to come at 2 then said he wouldnt get here til 3.30/4pm ish, i have text him but no response and now its nearly 5pm - we were meant to have lunch together?! I know he was going to spend the morning visiting his mum in hospital with his wife and little girl, but he could surely let me know if not coming??

Plus another one who i was meant to meet up with on most weekends for the past month, am meant to meet up with him tonight but he thinks he has to work late now (bar work)! Told me he would "let me know!"

Then this bloke i have known for ages (who i meet up with for the odd bit of hows-your-father) texts me at 3am today to ask if he can come round tonight after closing time, i say yes, then i dont hear from him!

[Hassled]

You can't generalise like that - most men are reliable IME. Except the ones who aren't.

Guy with wife in hospital - are you not concerned there's a problem?

[bitofthisandthat]

It's not his wife in hospital, its his mum..but he told me she is ok.