We need to apply for secondary schools for my dd next year.
Her current primary school is a state school and is fab! I had not really thought about private education before the last week or so.
The local secondary (state) is also fab! However, we are just outside the catchment area (we are less than 0.5 miles from the school). Over the last 5 years the catchment area has continued to decrease, so it's very very very unlikely that we'd get in. We simply cannot afford to move nearer as the houses right by the school are very large (too large for us anyhow) and very expensive. The only other local secondary that we could send her to is terrible! We checked their GCSE results just now and only 37% of students achieved 5 a-c grade GCSE's last year - that's pretty awful isn't it? There have been lots of bullying and other problems reported there and we often walk past it and cringe at the children outside smoking and swearing.
We are not well off at all. We live in a very modest 2 bed semi in SE London and both work full time. Our joint wage next year will be 65k.
DP currently refuses to discuss the possibility of sending dd to the local private school (which is beautiful, has excellent results and is just great according to a friends dd who used to go there). He said we don't earn enough and thinks dd will be a misfit there amongst all the very rich other children. Neither of us have been privately educated and all bar one of our friends kids attend state schools too. Privately educating her will cost us a lot, I know, and we will have to sacrifice other luxuries (like second holidays, second car etc) but she is our only child and I think it is worth it.
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NearlySpring · 28/05/2011 01:49
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