Bit of background: we are going on holiday in July. A friend is going on holiday in mid-June. She has suggested that we start our holiday a week earlier, in order to join them at their villa outside Nice. After that week, we would then go on our originally planned break.
This seemed like a good idea at the time, and my work is flexible enough to allow this option. Of course, we would have extra flight costs, but accomodation would be free, so I agreed.
Friend called about a month ago, and asked me to delay booking our flights as their plans are changing for various work/family reasons. She then asked if we could come to them a few days earlier than planned. Not a problem.
She now tells me their holiday plans have shifted 2 weeks earlier, and wants me to shift our time too (not very convenient, but possible - if flights aren't ludicrously high by now). SA few days later, she drops the bombshell that instead of a quiet week with them in the mountains with a few leisurely day trips, she wants us to come with them to Paris where her dh has business......oh, and don't worry, she'll pay for our Paris hotel.
I am rapidly losing interest - both in their constantly changing dates/plans, and the fact that our extra week with them is now morphing into something else entirely - and not at all what i originally agreed to.
She seems to think that we'll be happy to 'be flexible' - especially has she has offered to pay for the Paris hotel. I am inclined to tell her that we'll stick to our original plan.
She won't be happy, i know. What would you do/say, and aibu?
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Earlybird · 24/05/2011 20:52
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