It's our 2nd wedding anniversary.
DH has already been off work since Good Friday. Okay so he had a bad toothache the first few days but I feel like I've had to nag/harrass him into doing anything with us since then. (We have DD1 2.8 & DD2 6 months).
On Friday I went to my friends for the day so he went out with his mate - fair doos, he doesn't go out much. On Saturday he felt too rough to do anything and lounged about all day only 'watching' the 2.8 yo when I made him. Then yesterday he was tired and kept trying to slope off back to bed.
Despite having all this time off work he only bothered to go and get a card last night 5pm at the local one-stop shop. No present. He has now gone back to bed. I bought him a card and present, organised for the toddler to go to my mums today till tomorrow and have done a load of laundry, cleaned the kitchen and hoovered so the place looks nice for us.
However I get the feeling (very bloody clearly now) that he just can't be arsed.
So, WIBU to say bollox to you, drop the toddler at my mum's as planned then go shopping, buy myself something nice and then go for lunch by myself.
PS, I'm not bothered about being showered with gifts but it is the TOTAL lack of effort, like I'm not worth the effort of a drive into town (10 minutes away) for a card and a cuppa this morning. (I made him one).
I feel quite hurt actually but am not sure if I am just lacking perspective.
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RatherBeACyborg · 02/05/2011 10:30
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