for the past year my DSs dad, they are 11, 12 has visited them once a fortnight or so at our house. I told him recently this was not a suitable arrangement (various reasons)and pointed out that there is a park really close and other free activities nearby.
Since I told him this he has not seen the boys at all and in his email reply to their question'why haven't you seen us?' he said it was because I won't let him see them at mine and boys house.
AIBU to be unhappy with him seeing the boys in the house?I do wonder if i am being unreasonable to expect him to take the boys out of their home for their contact visits (he has not suggested having them visit his house) He does not call or mail the boys except to sort out visits and there is a lot of history here I am sure you can see.
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to tell DS's dad that he can't visit them at our family home
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missbusiness · 30/04/2011 23:00
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