Could do with some advice girls please... preggers hormones have scrambled my decision making skills!
I had a weird shock the other day when I saw that my Ex has sent me a friend request on Facebook - when I haven't heard from him in about 15 years!!
Basically, I'm happily married to my DH who I've been with for 14 years (BTW told my DH about the friend request straight away).
We were only 18 years old when my Ex and I got together and things lasted for over a year - it was a pretty passionate and tempramental relationship, we were very much in love but things ended pretty badly. He could be very possessive which led to the breakup which he didn't handle well at all.
I don't think it's appropriate for me to be in touch with my Ex at all, and I certainly don't want my Ex knowing any of my business. I don't want to hurt his feelings either.
Him getting back in touch has brought back feelings of guilt about the past, in that I was the one who dumped him and caused him a lot of pain. So I want to deal with this sensitively.
Should I...
a) just ignore the request entirely and leave it at that
b) ignore the request and send him a message on there saying hello, thanks for your request, I wish you well, but don't think it's appropriate us being in touch, take care of yourself blah blah blah
My DH is a thoughtful guy who gives good advice - he said for me not to worry and just to ignore it and leave it at that, which I do think is sensible and the right thing. But why does that make me feel guilty???
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To ignore Facebook friend request from my Ex Boyfriend?
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vhappymumma2b · 27/04/2011 19:55
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