It will stop me feeling like such a hormonal tithead :(
On thursday, my best mate texted me to ask if I wanted to join her and another (not very close) mate for a few drinks and food on saturday (last night). I am a bit broke as it's DH's/stepmums/niece's birthdays all this month, so I weighed up whether I wanted to shell out for a night out in an evening cafe then paying for a cab home (£20ish) I decided it wasn't worth it and I'd rather save my pennies, so I text my BM back and told her just that and she said no worries it's really short notice anyway/nothing special.
Then today I see that BM has posted pictures on FB of not just her and the not-so-close mate but my other two best mates too, all on a proper night out, not just at the cafe. I feel really peed off but I don't know why! One of the other best friends text me earlier on to see if I was still going to hers tomorrow and I said yes and did she have a nice time last night. She said they did have fun and they were all saying they wished I had come out, to which I said "well I didn't know you were all going out or else I probably would have"
If I'd known they were all going I would have gone as we don't all get together often on a night out, so I wouldn't have minded spending money on that. I feel a bit left out and :( But I also feel like a stupid twelve year old and I am usually very secure in my friendships but this has rattled me.
Tell me to STFU or summat please.
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marmaladetwatkins · 10/04/2011 19:02
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