See, I think it is and I am feeling horribly guilty about it and I haven't even booked it yet!
Although, DP insists that's it fine. Basically the background is: My mother and father who are both elderly (and my mother who is partially disabled) have not been on holiday for years (and abroad for even longer). They've just moved into retirement accommodation which I organised for them and have quite the surplus of cash and while there kitchen is being refitted it was suggested that they could go on a cruise. I have found the perfect one for them which travels around the Med and I know my mother, particularly will absolutely love it.
I have two children, one DD who is 8 and one DS who is 12 months. I will need to assist my mother and father around the cruise ship and it's thought that if I have DS to look after as well as DD it would be too much and DS might not settle well.
There are of course are pros and cons to the situation:
PRO's
I get to spend some one on one time with DD which would be lovely as since having DS we haven't spent as much time together and we will be able to do all the excursions (which we might not be able to do if we had DS as many are not "baby" friendly)
It will be lovely to share my mother's dream holiday with her
I will be able to assist both my mother and father and help them make the most of the trip
I don't have to pay for it, my mother has offered to pay for it (jammy cow I know!)
CON'S
I will miss DS terribly and not sure I could cope with not seeing him for two whole weeks and I would worry about him even though he will be with his Daddy, Aunties and DP's Grandparents.
I feel mean for going on holiday without DP or DS but DP (who finds my parents difficult) wouldn't even think about coming!
I would appreciate some advice and particularly any helpful hints if you have done this!
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StarryEyedMama · 21/02/2011 17:10
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