I probably am BU but because I have no experience of being a new mum, I can't help but take it a bit personally.
My friend of a few years recently had a baby. We are/were pretty close, I like her enormously and am delighted that she's recently had a baby as I know she wanted to be a mum for a long time.
So far, all good.
Except for the fact that she now never returns my texts or calls. Obviously she is having her mind blown by her new DS and I'm the last thing she's worried about, but I can't help but feel a little bit upset and rejected that my Christmas and new years texts and voicemail have gone completely unacknowledged.
I have loads of childless friends so it's not that she was my only mate or anything, I guess I'm just paranoid that I'm going to lose this friendship to the 'mummy abyss' and it's hard to keep making the effort in the face of constantly being ignored (even if it's for a perfectly god reason).
Can anyone give me some perspective from the other side of this situation please?
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madonnawhore · 06/01/2011 12:17
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