I dont know whether im coming or going, we live in housing had a problem with neighbours for the last two months had our property damaged,cant prove anything except a used cigerate butt was flicked onto my kids trampoline and burnt it twice,other incidents have happened.
Tonight kids through a snowball at the front door,I caught them they were hiding.
Approached them they also live in the street,they said it was an accident,I questioned them as to why they were hiding if that wa sthe case,then they went into the neighbours where we have been having problems with.
He did apologise before hand ,but laughed and went into their house when he thought I had gone,I knocked the door at the house he then said to me get over it.
Came back to have the dd's mother at my door ranting at me about involving the police ,because in anger I said would report it.
She started to shout at me infront of my kids saying I had overreacted and I should know it wa sher dd,which I did I admit to you no I did not know it was her dd.
I lost it with her and swore,tbh I have had enough of it all,I dont want to live here anymore?,Im not used to dealing with this never had problems with anyone,but can assure you it seems one thing after another.
Dp has had a offer for us to move into his parents house and share with them in the near future,having seperate parts of their house they would be next door in there annexe we have a chance to buy their house ,plus dp is investing money with the inlaws,which has caused arguments between us as we were planning to move eventually.
I feel I have no control of anything at the moment,I have also told new boss im leaving my second job due to them misleading me in the job interview,as I being asked to go to other places of work,this was not agreed,and is not covered by my insurance as that would be business as I have to claim for petrol.
Im here on my own dp gone out said i overacted and im a loon,im feeling very down,I have no control of anything I feel everyone is walking all over me,and im left to deal with the dcs.
I have yet to go back to work as the school has reported my employers,and I know im about to have new employers wanting to talk to me about leaving,i alos have to go to work tomorrow at my other job and dont really feel up to it.
I left the incident with the snowball as it would lead to more hassel as advised by the police, which tbh I overreacted and I cant be dealing with,I feel like leaving and going back to parents.
Im sorry it sounds stupid but Im not happy infact im miserable,maybe im a drama queen.
I need a mn hug,im a regular been here for years but change my name alot.sorry.
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cherrytreeblooms · 03/12/2010 21:01
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