felt very sorry for myself and not a little bit angry at the question my sister asked me as I dropped her off at the airport today.
She asked me if I could get help decluttering my house as she thought it was getting too full (turns out she finds it hard to rest while staying in my house as it is too clutered.)
I'm off work with chronic illness and my dh has taken on my half of the work. He is an absolute darling and already gets up every morning to get the kids off to school, he does all the washing and often cooks. He is messy, but I feel I should accept this as he already does so much.
I spend my energy tidying one room a day if I can, but I also help look after my dad who lives across the street, spend time with friends, especially if they are having a hard time.
I get no help from my wider family, in laws never come over unless to take us out to lunch), Mum lives 12 hours away and visits once a year but is usually too tired to help.
AIBU to be upset at what she said, should I see her point that she finds it too messy (as I do too, but its my house and I have learned to live with it)
The House is clean, my pension pays for a wonderful lady who cleans it well.
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youngersister · 02/11/2010 17:44
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