I have two DS's who have different academic abilities. DS1 has always been a little above average whilst DS2 has always been slightly below average (although he is starting to catch up now).
Last year, DS1 was told he was capable of achieving level 5s on English, Maths and Science sats. I told him that if he DID achieve this, I would reward him (he would be rewarded for effort anyway but this would have been a little more special iyswim?).
Anyway I found out yesterday that he did it.
DS2 is now worrying that he won't be treated because he knows he'll never get 5s.
WIBU to lower his target and tell him if he achieves a level 4b in everthing (national average) I'll treat him in the same way? would it be unfair to DS1?
There is no point in telling him to get 5s, it's unrealistic.
Or aibu?
(p.s. I know the sats are not important, I'm just trying to show them that working hard has its rewards and to work towards goals etc).
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To lower the goalposts for DS2?
3 replies
TheRealPerson · 14/07/2010 09:22
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.