10 years ago i found a birth certificate in my mums stuff (she left my dad and was sorting out for her) that didnt make sense. The name was same as my uncles but dates different. I asked my mum about it and she got really upset and told me she had got pregnant and was made to put up for adoption.
A few years later when i got pregnant myself and had a baby i began to understand how painful it must have been for her, So contacted norcap and got my mum to try and find him as she never stopped thinking about him.
Unfortunately they couldnt find any searches for him in marriages, births, deaths and electoral rolls etc... so they sent the adoptive parents a letter asking them to pass on a letter stating that his bioligical mother wanted contact. We received a letter back saying they had passed the letter on but that was it we've never heard from him.
Its really upsetting and i dont know what if anything can be done.
The fact they cant find any searches leads me to think maybe he emigrated or is in the forces. But is there any way we could find him and do you think he adoptive oarents really did pass on the letter?
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mummc2 · 30/09/2008 11:03
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