Having a horrible time. Try to shorten things... applied to adopt with husband, accepted, then it all went horribly wrong. Husband had a major meltdown, I had to leave home with our little girl as he refused to and still continues to. Needless to say I was bound by the panel to let them know, at this point I thought we could sort it out with help. Adoption officer came for meeting. He saw through my husbands lies, thankfully. And decided that adoption was not the way forward. Incredibly sad, but knew deep down we couldn't work things out. He had told me he no longer found me attractive and was no longer in love with me and had felt this way for over a year. So basically before we'd applied to adopt.
What I need to know is if I can have a copy of our notes and how can I get them? Because we talked about what would happen to our children should we ever split up (one of the many questions we were asked). I could really do with it in light of all of the lies he is telling and the horrible way he is now treating me and our family. He is also saying he had his meltdowns because I left, however this is not the truth, I left because I couldn't take anymore. Can anyone help please? X
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Jagno9 · 15/07/2016 17:53
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