Hi all
DS 2.3 has started his nursery intro sessions (one hour slots)in the last couple of weeks, just an hour at a time, first couple I stayed but he went off into another room within first five min and didn't come looking for me or get upset so the last couple I have left him to it and gone out. First time he got really upset in the last ten min of his hour, this morning he was sobbing before I'd even put his bag down! I stayed for five min but it felt like I was just dragging it out for him so left him getting cuddles from one of the nursery staff. Please tell me this is totally normal, I kind of know it is but sat round the corner in the car crying thinking that he's thinking I'm gone for good. Thankfully most kids never know the feeling of someone walking out never to return but his last three 'Mums' (birth and two foster) have done in his eyes. I feel so guilty someone please tell me to get a grip!
He is soooo ready for nursery, he's making so much progress catching up and I really do think this is the best thing for him and will be that final push to help with his speech, now the one thing that he is rather behind on apart from only fucking eating sausages! but trying so bloody hard with. He will just be doing his free 15 hours a week term time until I return to work next year so on paper it looks like a good balance for him, in reality mummy guilt is kicking me in the teeth
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MintyLizzy9 · 14/04/2016 10:29
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