We're two years post placement, with 2 DC ages 6 and 4 and we're mostly doing okay. DD needs lots of physical attention - she can't be in the same room as us without being on or next to us. If we're unavailable she'll make DS sit with her. Quite often all of us will be in one seat. She can also be really anxious though she's not been formally diagnosed with anything. She also doesn't really play. She'll read and colour for a bit, or she'd watch TV all day if she was allowed to.
I'm not going to lie, I'm finding the constant touching really hard going. I make excuses to be elsewhere/doing chores/needing my hands free.
Then a friend with dog visited. And DD stroked dog for hours. And was visibly relaxed. And sat stroking dog and chuckling away to herself.
And I thought, we should get a dog. It's so obvious.
Is it obvious? Am I trying to outsource parenting to a dog? Or am I enhancing parenting because I'll be able to do it better if I do it less? Or am I making it worse for myself because the dog will want stroking too? Might the dog make her happy/less anxious?
I'm not asking about the general stuff about having a dog, only specifically about how it would relate to DD really. Anyone have any thoughts?
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tldr · 22/11/2015 15:03
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