Hi all,
Looking for some advice on my partner adopting my daughter.
My daughter will be 12 years old in September, and I have been with my wife for just over 10 years (we had our same sex civil partnership 4yrs ago.) My daughter was only 1 when we got together.
My daughter does see her dad, once a week when he collects her Friday at 6pm and drops her home Saturday lunch time. He does have parental responsibility which I have no problem with.
The main reason I am enquiring about adoption is because my daughter has asked me that, if anything ever happened to me would she have to live with her dad, or can she stay living with her step mum and just visit dad like she always does. My wife has no issue with this and sees my daughter as her own anyway having been part of her life since before she could walk.
I am not sure where my daughter would stand with this though, as she will only be 12yrs old in September and if dad has parental responsibility would she be made to live with him if anything happened to me? He is no threat to her, and I am not saying he is not a good father, BUT she would not want to live with him and so I am looking for advice.
I am only 34yrs so hopefully nothing will happen to me in the near future, but her asking this has made me think, alongside with the fact I have just lost a friend who was in her 30's and so I feel the need to know that god forbid something happened to me my daughter would be ok with her wishes.
I would imagine her dad would oppose my partner adoping my daughter, so what happens if he does?
Any advice would be much appreciated?
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kezza8119 · 20/05/2015 16:26
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