Hello,
We are in the early stages of being linked to a young baby. The BM has identified 2 possible fathers but one is felt to be more likely. SW have tried to engage with the more likely dad and get him to do a DNA test and be involved in the care plan for the baby but he has refused to be involved in any way. My concern is that if we proceed with this link (which we'd like to) that he could pop up later and express an interest. Presumably if he did and a dna test confirmed that he was the dad then we'd have to go back to the beginning while he and his family were assessed as potential carers. I get the impression from his attitude that this isn't necessarily very likely but it still worries me. I know there has been a court case recently where the child was removed from the adoptive family as the result of the birth father coming forward at the last minute.
Does anyone have any advice or experience of a similar situation. I desperately want this to work out and at the moment this seems to be the only fly in the ointment (although who knows what else may crop up in matching discussions!)...
Thanks :-)
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researchbookworm · 01/05/2015 12:52
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