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dimples76 · 30/06/2014 22:12

I have approval panel on Wednesday and I'm feeling very anxious and excited. Don't think I'm going to get much sleep between now and then. I've just returned from a 3 hour shopping trip for my outfit on Wednesday to realise that the top I bought is almost identical to one I already own! When my colleague asked what I was having for lunch today I answered 'salary' (because I was thinking about my PAR).

Did anyone else feel like they were starting to lose it?!

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MrsM2509 · 30/06/2014 22:50

Ours is in two weeks and I can't think of anything else!

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dibly · 30/06/2014 23:57

Ours is Wednesday too, and it's almost impossible to stay calm! Wine is def helping though!

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MrsM2509 · 02/07/2014 12:36

Good luck for today!!x

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Picklesontoast · 02/07/2014 13:30

Good luck dimples - today will no doubt be the first day of your new adventure - no wonder we can't think of anything else beforehand! I was exhausted after panel alongside the elation, do let us know how you got on if you can.

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dimples76 · 02/07/2014 17:31

You are so right pickles I am so tired (I have been awake since 3am).

I could not get over how lovely the panel was and how quick it was all over. I thought the chair was going to ask me to leave the room so they could discuss me but she just said that it should not come as any surprise to me to learn that I was approved. I felt v emotional afterwards especially as it meant saying goodbye to my social worker ( she is a student and has just finished her placement).

Now the waiting game begins...

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excitedmamma · 02/07/2014 22:39

Congratulations Dimples.... what a relief... I did not enjoy our panel day one bit...

Matching panel is waaaayyyy more enjoyable Grin

Very best of luck in the waiting... keep busy, enjoy your sleep and tidy up!!

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Italiangreyhound · 02/07/2014 22:44

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GiantIsopod · 02/07/2014 23:59

I was going to say good luck, but it's a bit late, so CONGRATULATIONS! Smile

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CloserThanYesterday · 03/07/2014 06:37

Congratulations dimples! We were approved yesterday too, but our chair person left us feeling a bit flat - 'yes we all wanted to approve you, but we had these concerns and you need to do this that and the other' - all of which had just been discussed in the meeting. He was a bit condescending really.

But, an approval is an approval! On to the next step Grin

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prumarth · 03/07/2014 06:41

Congratulations dimples and closer!

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RhinosAreFatUnicorns · 03/07/2014 07:32

Congratulations :)

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MerryInthechelseahotel · 03/07/2014 09:01

Congratulations to you dimples and closer too! Thanks Thanks

It won't be long now.

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MrsM2509 · 03/07/2014 09:17

Congratulations dimples and closer! Hope your wait isn't too long for the right match xx

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64x32x24 · 03/07/2014 09:48

Congratulations to all the newly approved prospective adopters! Dimples, Closerthan, Dibly I hope?

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dibly · 03/07/2014 12:01

Yes thanks 64, we got the big yes too!

Congrats Dimples and Closer!

They started talking to us about a LO a few weeks back, so now hoping for matching panel on 23 July...head's spinning!

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Picklesontoast · 03/07/2014 12:35

Happy days! Congratulations dimples, closer and dibly. Enjoy your newly approved status.

Closer, that sounds a bit unfair of the chair, don't let them get you down. An approval is an approval and is a massive big congratulatory deal and no one can take that away from you!

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dimples76 · 03/07/2014 23:13

Congrats dibly and closer! Today at work everyone kept asking me what was different - the consensus seemed to be that I was in love. I just went along with that!

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