Our childminder for DS and her husband have been trying to conceive for a number of years with no success and are now almost matched with a 2yo boy for adoption. Our childminder is taking a couple of months off work as they settle as a family. My DS adores his childminder and her husband and is just a month younger than the boy they will adopt and I am hoping the little lads will be able to be good friends in the long run but am wondering how best to support the settling process in it's early days...do I offer to meet up at soft play etc with my friend (childminder) and their adopted DS for example? Or do I/DS stay away whilst they all bond and settle? I don't know any specifics about the circumstances that the child is coming from other than he is currently in foster care. All of this is quite new to me so hopefully I've not said anything insensitive above though please tell me if I have!
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BlueC2 · 11/02/2014 21:20
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