I was just wondering what other adopters think of this.
My DS's school phoned me a while back to let me know what they plan to do with this extra funding so that it benefits him. They basically said that they would make some extra curricular activities available to him if they felt it would help him improve in area that needed improving.
We had a discussion where I said that anything that helped to improve his creativity , either in writing or art or performing ( drama or music) would be wonderful. Help with handwriting would also be great.
Academically he does great so he doesn't need any additional help in these areas at the moment. He is also very sporty. He plays rugby and tennis , is about to get his brown belt in karate and has already passed his national curriculum award in swimming 3 years ahead of the expected age.
So I was a bit surprised to receive a letter yesterday telling me how excited they are at being able to offer my DS a special activity day ,free of charge, at a local sports club during half term. Apparently all children in receipt of free school meals have been offered this so as he now gets this people premium it has been extended to him too.
Unfortunately as there are hardly any kids at the school who qualify for free school meals none of his class mates will be at this event.
I feel bad turning the offer down but he will not go unless his friends are there. I'd feel equally bad accepting the offer though as we can afford to pay for this sort of thing ourselves if he wanted to do it. We often pay for a day at a football camp or an activity day at the local wildlife trust during the holidays.
I feel really ungrateful but at the same time a bit frustrated at the schools lack of imagination with regards to spending the extra cash.
What do you think? I know I'm probably being a grumpy old bag about it all!
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AngelsWithSilverWings · 04/02/2014 13:04
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