Hi all, I'm new to mumsnet and adopting a child. It's been a busy month! In 3 weeks a 10 year old boy is coming to live with us, which is both incredibly exciting and quite daunting... His previous placement of 7 years broke down, and he's spent the last 12 months with foster carers and in a home. We've only met him a few times - he's such a nice kid, but still bewildered about why the only parents he's ever known don't want him. My DH has a 12yo daughter who lives in another town but visits regularly. I wondered if you lovely adoptive mums out there could give me any advice on settling an older child into their new home, dealing with common issues etc. (He's so keen to have a new family but will struggle to believe this is, finally, his forever home.) Thanks so much.
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Adopting a 10yo - any advice on helping him settle in?
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TulaTula · 14/01/2014 21:42
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