I have a newbie question I'm hoping someone might be able to help with.
DH and I are in the early stages of looking at adoption (we have received our 'information pack' from the local adoption agency). We have no DCs.
An acquaintance of ours was recently rejected by an adoption panel and they are understandably devastated. We're all very surprised, but not knowing why they might have been turned down I'm now very anxious about whether we'd be considered suitable and potential pitfalls we can start working on at an early stage.
One thing that's troubling me is our house. We have a 3 bed Victorian terrace, very much the traditional style with two downstairs rooms and three upstairs.
Because I work from home the large front bedroom is my office. Then there is our bedroom, and off our bedroom (this is the crucial bit!) down two steps there is a third little bedroom. At present there is no door but that can be dealt with (we are in a long-term private tenancy).
When we first moved here we felt this would be perfect for a baby up until 3 or 4 by which time we would have hoped to have moved to a bigger house - or, failing that, I'd give up my office and move into the little room (which is by no means a box room but is pretty small).
I've seen lots and lots of families with this arrangement but I know social workers and adoption panels are understandably very stringent and exacting with their standards on accommodation. Would they consider this to be not good enough for a child? We'd be looking to adopt under the age of 2.
Very grateful for any views/experience/advice.
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FragglerockAmpersand · 15/12/2013 12:12
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