Hi all just looking for a bit of info from people with experience of adoption as I am finding little online.
I have a 4 year old DS and I've loved every minute of parenting - it hasn't been easy with DS we've had health problems and so on which have made parenting an emotional journey. But it's all so worth it. I still feel the overwhelming love feeling every day as I did the first time I held him. I've yearned for another child for quite a while now but after my third miscarriage earlier this year we haven't conceived since and I've battled with so many emotions. And now I am unsure if I can go through a potential baby loss again or the constant devastating monthly cycle.
I've been thinking on and off of adoption. My biggest concern is my partner. We are such a loving family and we are very content and happy and another child would be a blessing to our family and a blessing to the child. However, 7 years ago when me and my partner had not long been together he was sent to prison due to a fight when he was in his early 20's and been drinking with the lads. (No excuse, obviously) But prison and support really worked through that difficult time and he's grown to be a fantastic father and successful in business and I am very proud of him all round.
So my question is - would we be eligible for adoption due to his record?
It would be a real shame if a mistake from the past meant that we couldn't grow our family.
Also - does it make a difference if we are not married.
What are the processes of adoption you have to go through so I can prepare myself if we do decide to go ahead.
Thank you.
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ParenthoodJourney · 04/12/2013 12:16
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