DD is 2.5 and has been at nursery for 9 months. After a wobbly few weeks she settled into the baby room and was allocated a key worker whom she bonded well with. We agreed a move to the toddler room after a few months, a move which came with a new key worker. It's a really small nursery (9 staff) so the change of key worker was okay, although she took a while to settle into that room - she has what we call "spirit" .
Anyway enough of the ramble... Whilst DD gets on with the 4 or 5 staff she sees lots of, she has well and truly bonded with one, let's call her Debbie. So much so, that on days when she isn't at nursery, she talks about her, asks whether Debbie can come out with us etc. Debbie is the first one she asks for on arrival at nursery, and talks about her on the way. You get the picture!
Anyway I have just found out that Debbie is leaving in a few weeks. I have no idea how to break this to DD, I just don't think she will understand. The idea of someone with whom she has such a strong attachment leaving her has unexpectedly upset me too, daft I know.
This is another of those " will her being adopted make a difference" situations.... Any ideas?
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Happiestinwellybobs · 18/09/2013 17:29
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