I don't know why I look at the MailOnline, I really don't sometimes. They have a wonderful adoption article today....which is the biggest load of tripe I have had the misfortune of reading in quite some time. And frighteningly, Joe Public is now reading this, and I'm sure some of them believe it
The worst thing is that the author claims to be a member of an adoption panel. God help us all if thats the attitude of many more of them
She moans about waiting children's unusual names. Not because of their likelihood of being traced, which is a legitimate concern. Oh no, doesn't mention that at all. Instead, she moans that only the 'underclass' (her word not mine!) are named Gemma-mai and Jayde, and that nice middle class adoptive parents shouldn't have to get saddled with names like that, 'cause we're all far too snobby to want children with those names, and that's the real reason why children don't get adopted!!
Worst of all, she also moans that we get given too much information about the children!!! TOO MUCH!! Apparently we should get given almost no information about our children, because they are blank canvasses and it will all be fine if we know nothing about them Yes, really! Straight out of the sixties! Our children will apparently be fine if we know nothing about their past. We don't need to know if say, they were exposed to drugs in pregnancy, or how they were abused, or anything about their first family, and if we know nothing the children will turn out fine
I am so angry right now. This is an adopton panel member. No bloody wonder we get no support if so many adoption professionals still believe the blank canvass twaddle that was discredited years ago.
Dear author of article - get your arse OFF that panel until you have educated yourself. Go read a book for a start. I am my childrens mum and I have a RIGHT to know all of their history. My children have a RIGHT to know WHY they were removed. How dare you insult my children by claiming they are blank canvasses? And Joe Public have a right not to be misled by that utter twaddle you wrote as well
I needed to rant this out. And correct any members of the public who believed that
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What complete utter drivel
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Lilka · 07/05/2012 11:52
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