I had my first DS in March and have been on SMP since (roughly half of my usual income), I have moved into a new home and I am getting married later in October. All in all, it hasn't been a cheap year.
Last Xmas I got my mum a lovely expensive handbag and a few other bits and mentioned I had gone a tad overboard as I wasn't sure how much free cash I would have in subsequent years to be able to do the same.
My DM has been divorced for coming up 20 years, no other partners and I am an only child. Her parents do treat her though.
From a young age my grandparents have bought fairly expensive gifts for her "from me" and this has been the expectation of me since I began earning my own wage.
Problem is, she has already started hinting at large, expensive items for this Xmas. I can't really afford it to be honest and I thought it had been addressed in advance last year (for the record, she wont have forgot, her memory is incredible).
I can't get away with some nice boots sets or whatever as she HAS to use the most expensive makeup, handcream, body lotion etc. Clothes are the same. Vouchers are impersonal and it goes on and on.
What can I do without hurting feelings? FWIW I don't expect massive presents myself, a couple of books, maybe a massage voucher would do for me!
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PixieMiss · 04/09/2016 18:23
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