Perhaps this would be better in AIBU
I always start early for Christmas, I like to spread the cost as it's easier on the pocket.
Every year we have the same problem.
I ask him what to buy the kids he says 'don't know bloody hell shiny it's only june September there's plenty of time.
DS1 has put in his request for a laptop, he's 14, about to take his options and he's only had a second hand laptop which is a bit knackered.
We can afford it, (just) .
I have spoken to DP and all i'm getting is . You are not buying him a brand new laptop. I ask why and he gets the hump and just says no. I ask him to come up with alternative ideas and he says the same thing. 'Bloody hell shiny it's ages away'
I shop for our children my neice, nephews, mum, mums husband, his mum and dad.
He's also had depression for a few months and it hit him hard, he's just returned to work this week and already he doesn't seem to be coping brilliantly but financially he cant be off for too long and he needs to be doing something.
Shall I just go out buy what I want to buy, take the pressure of him and deal with the fall out Christmas day? Especially if he can't come up with alternatives.
Every Christmas Eve he moans about what i've bought and how much i've spent. I always tell him never to express these opinions in front of the children as it would make them feel bad.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
From present ideas to party food, find all your Christmas inspiration here.
Christmas
What do you do when you both have different opinions on what to buy the children for Christmas?
7 replies
Shinyshoes1 · 23/08/2011 11:47
OP posts:
UsingMainlySpoons ·
23/08/2011 11:54
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.