Wouldn't be such a problem if it wasn't for the fact that I'm going back to work in a couple of months, and there's not been much sign of any improvement in the last three months... I know that DH, baby and I will all be suffering 100 times more if this continues when I go back to work :(
On good nights, he wakes up twice - once between 1am and 4am, and settles down quickly when we give him his dummy and a pat on the bum, and once at 5ish for a feed. On bad nights, like last night, it's frequent waking, and sometimes takes 2 hours of going back and forth to his cot to settle him down. For the last month or two he keeps waking up crying on his hands and knees rocking back and forth as if trying to crawl (which he can do now, during the day!)
Co-sleeping is not an option - he actually sleeps worse with us.
I am sure it's separation anxiety at the moment, he just wants cuddles, but it's just so bloody depressing that it's just one thing after another with seemingly nothing I can do to help: developmental leap, sleep regression, trying to crawl and sit up in the middle of the night, separation anxiety, next it'll be teething, standing up in the cot, and then more separation anxiety! It's never ending! Even when he's not got one of these 'reasons' he'll probably just keep night waking out of habit or wanting his dummy.
I can't deal with this for another year or more! There's no sign of it ending... Please say there's SOMETHING I can do! I am not averse to sleep training as long as it's nothing too harsh. CC or gentle retreat? Or would that be counterproductive with the separation anxiety?
I don't regret having my lovely, happy and active baby for a second, but part of me thinks 'can't believe I signed up for this' I thought by 6 months things would be better by now.
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Flingmoo · 16/12/2014 16:24
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