I've started seeing a new man it's all new.
Last night we tried to have sex for the first time and I couldn't I kind of froze.
Il be honest with you in July I had sex with a man with a girlfriend,it was shitty and I regret it,I'm not just saying that ..I actually regret it to a point where I hate myself.
Anyway this guy is the first person I've slept with since( well tried to have sex) I couldn't do it,I fancy this man but I felt dirty and cheap,I can't explain.
In July with this guy we got into bed and I honestly thought we wouldn't have sex,before we got in he said he was happy to cuddle and talk.
I can't remember if I mentioned in my last post but he just changed and said we having sex,your not getting out of this bed till I f*ck you.
We had such a good night open until then just talking etc and I felt close to him.
Now I won't lie I did want him but I did somewhere deep down knew it was wrong so I kept saying we shouldn't etc.
Now I know he was turned on.
I turned over and he started to pull my underwear down ( I did grab them and say look no we shouldn't) I was still a little on my period and thought first time I didn't want him to see me like that)
He kept trying to have sex so I thought just let him because I did want to ( I did I just was having arguments with myself what was right and wrong)and he wasn't going to give up.
His attitude changed and he was angry or maybe that was Him turned on.
So he started having sex.
I did enjoy it once it started but after I felt he had no respect for me.
Since then I've felt dirty.
One because he was a taken man and two because he didn't care for me enough when I said no to listen.
I can't look at myself naked.
I feel like a whore( own fault I know)
But I think I've blown it with this new bloke,I can't explain how I feel to him.
He didn't force me to have sex but wouldn't listen to my wishes.
What's wrong with me?
Seriously why am I so fucked up?
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