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F*****G B*****D!!!

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Oddsox2 Tue 05-Feb-13 19:40:17

I want to scream and if I didn't feel so poorly right now I would....

Vile EA husband!!!

We are in the process of splitting up, still living in the same house.

Today I went into my jewellery box for something and could not believe it when I discovered my wedding, engagement and eternity rings gone! £4000 worth of rings, taken by him!

I went looking and couldn't ind them but instead found my notes from my CAB meeting 2 weeks ago, ATM balance receipts showing my bank balance and receipts for things I've bought....!

Oh and not to mention his porn DVD stash which would explain why the vile pig has rejected me sexually for the past 3 years, calling a vile fat Cnut and telling me how I've let myself go after having our son! He's been getting off on porn instead!

Oh my god I am so angry and teary at the same time. I wish my parents were alive, I need them so much!

I have moved the rest of my jewellery, important paperwork, certificates and passports to my friends this afternoon.

I so want this over.

mrkidd85 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:06:25

I'm not thoughtless at all - I was in a relationship and as soon as she showed signs of not being very nice I was out of there. It's not different for women.

MumVsKids Tue 05-Feb-13 21:10:30

Maybe her showing signs of not being very nice was reciprocated behaviour MrKidd ???

MrKidd your post makes you appear not a very nice person. I'm sure that's incorrect cos no one in their right mind would tell someone who has been in an abusive relationship that they deserve her kids to be taken into care......

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:22:58

* MrKidd* I'll say it so that the OP doesn't have to have the telling off from MN- shove it up your arse you vicious, spineless, unfeeling cunt!

This woman has been emotionally abused, treated like shit, stolen from and is having to go through a break up still living with her abuser...and you say she deserves it and should have her kids taken into care??

What a pathetic piece of shit you are!!!!

Now go on, report me. It'll get deleted but you'll still know it's true. Dickhead.

Oddsox2 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:29:42

Abbierhodes thanks

XxX

MrKidd, do the OP a favour and go find somewhere else to peddle your shit. I think there is a rape victim who needs to be told it was her fault for walking down a fucking street, you arsehole. (Sorry whoever is in charge at MN tonight, but this "man" disgusts me with his victim blaming)

OP, get your stuff out and then report him for theft.

mrkidd85 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:30:31

So how come OP you didn't leave after the first signs of emotional abuse?

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Oddsox2 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:33:34

Oh I don't know Mrkidd85.... Oh wait yes I do, I'd just had severe pre eclampsia giving birth to my DS and nearly lost him, my dad suffered a fatal heart attack a few months earlier, oh and the night I got rushed into hospital to have my son my grandad died.... Yeah....I was a little low, hits you quite hard stuff like that.... Sorry I'm not super woman!

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:33:46

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abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:36:15

Nah, keep him here! It's like those microsoft scammers! Let's keep him here with us so he's not off upsetting someone even more vulnerable!

OP, flowers not necessary! Now, you go have a cuppa and I'll feed this troll until he bursts!!

Januarymadness Tue 05-Feb-13 21:36:28

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Just leave the thread, you are inciting and being an arsehole. The OP does not have to explain herself to you, although if you bother reading the first message you'll find and explaination on why she wants the rings.

Now please leave the thread so the OP can focus on replies that actually help her.

mrkidd85 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:36:52

+ before I get any more shit from people, aren't some of you just as bad for saying that I'm an advocate for rape?

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:37:22

Haha! Are you him? Why does he want the rings?

Oddsox2 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:37:28

It has taken me years to feel strong enough to do something about this, and yes I still even wanted to sleep with him, to be perfect for him, to fix whatever it was that must be wrong with me to make him so vile to me, to give our DS a solid family....and you come along and suggest I making it up, how dare you?!

Do you know what i am not even going to justify myself to a person like you.

Sorry abbier, x-post!

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:38:39

Sorry, lots of cross-posts! The rage is slowing me down!

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mrkidd85 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:38:52

I'm guessing he wants the rings because he bought them. If OP is so disgusted by this monster why would she want any reminders of him in the house?

Januarymadness Tue 05-Feb-13 21:39:10

oh and the law of theft:

The dishonest! appropriation of property! belonging to another! with the intention! of permanently depriving the other of it!

sounds like theft to meangry angry

mrkidd85 Tue 05-Feb-13 21:40:50

I'm not sure it's possible to steal something that you bought. If a man buys a woman a wedding, engagement and an eternity ring, shouldn't they be returned if it ends?

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:41:09

Well they're worth a lot of money, and they're her possessions.

Do you have a wife? Doubtful, but if you do I pity the poor cow.

abbierhodes Tue 05-Feb-13 21:42:37

A gift is a gift, ownership is transferred. Honestly, google it. Can't even be bothered to check out your own arguments.

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