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DP has been acting like a nasty horny teenager.

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WhatsHappenedToHim Sat 08-Dec-12 00:03:12

I've name changed because he knows my nn.

My dp has been acting very strangely recently. Every time there's an underwear advert, pretty tame sex scene, nipples showing through a shirt or anything slightly sexual on tv he will be completely engrossed and stop what hes doing to watch, I cant say or do anything to break his gaze. Hes never been like this before but hes acting like a horny teenage virgin or something.

He wont go anywhere near me though!

I had a baby a few months ago so understandably I have a wobbly stomach. Hes poked it a few times calling it podgy or made comments that I'm fat (Ive lost about 2 and a half stone so far PP and a stone away from pre pregnancy weight, 8.5 stone) When he sees that hes offended me he would quickly say he was joking and give me a hug, even though he rarely hugs me any other time. Again this is so out of character.

Hes also made comments about women at work being 'fit' or when he sees a pretty women will say 'she'd get it'

The worst thing of all is how flippant he is about the bad things I've been through in the past (abuse, rape etc.) He will rarely say things about my situation personally but will comment on other women who have been in those circumstances and joke. When he does joke about me personally he will say things like 'Poor little privileged girl had such a difficult life boohoo'

Why has he turned into this nasty person? He was nothing like this before.

Xenia Sun 09-Dec-12 19:33:04

It sounds like he has put on a lot of weight and if he could get down to about 10 or 11 stone he might also cheer up. Perhaps if he starts to eat better foods and exercise more he might sort out his problems.

Abitwobblynow Mon 10-Dec-12 06:05:20

Wow Slarty, your other half must feel REALLY SPECIAL and CHERISHED.

I mean, why are you with her, when there are all those other, tighter twats around? All that temptation, she needs to put in a lot of effort to stop keep you.

What makes you choose this object, over all the other objects? Do you know who she is? What are her hopes and dreams? What does she wish for? What does she believe in? What do you agree in what you know about her, and where do you differ?

Or do you even give a fuck. As long as your stomach is full and your balls are empty, who cares - that is good enough for you?

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