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(don't know if this should be here or lone parents)

But he just told me, that, as of today, he allows me to move on with my life.

Almost 3 years since we split up.

And he allows me to move on as of today.

Isn't that just great? I've been sitting waiting for him to give me his permission for all this time.

What a knob.

I hope you laughed! What an idiot.

I did.

But now I feel a bit weird and teary - I think mostly because I've moved on so much and come so far and yet he still thinks he has to give me his permission and allow me to do anything.

Hehehe!

Oooh ta - you must be ever so grateful to him for allowing you that!

LOL!

Am laughing now and crying at the same time.

What a total dick.

It's his issue and not yours OP - don't let his madness opinions wind you up.
Stupid arse.

He actually thinks he's got the right to say it though - I wonder if he has a new girlfriend? and if he does God help her

What an apocalyptic knob! But aren't you glad you';re rid of him?

Totally and utterly SGB

Oh how kind and thoughtful of him



He's a monumental dick. You've clearly left him for dust while he squints through the dust cloud pretending he can still see you. Good for you!

The thing that gets me is he is shocked that I'm not "grateful"

What The Actual Fuck?

What a nice man! How could you let go of such a catch?

Huge I have no idea. Maybe I've made a monumental mistake?

I guess what he means is that he has finally moved on.... ?

This vaguely reminds me of a Friends episode....
Rachel: " I, am over, you"
Ross: "when we're you under me?"

Not helpful, I know. Apologies.

He sounds like a total arse, you're far better off, but you know that already!

that made me laugh

I have decided I'm not giving him the headspace to even try to analyse wtf he's thinking.

Hahaha what a muppet ! .

OP im really glad hes your ex , he sounds just like the fuckwit i was married to before DH.

On telling him that I was pregnant with twins to my new dh he told me that id fucked up,ruined things, and there was no way he would take me back now ! .

This man i left , and divorced on account of his adultary with another man , his tranvestism, his DV , and general cruelty toward me and the kids , and his utterly controlling attitude .

Id rather eat broken glass and poke my own eyes out , than go back to that nasty prick.

But in his mind , i would have eventually begged him to take me back <even the fact id divorced him and married someone else wasnt enough to convince him that wasnt going to happen >.

I guess allowing someone else to impregnate me was the deciding factor for him here ..... wish id knew that id have done that 18 years ago !!!!

Brilliant!

Tell him you can't it's impossible. But <deep breath> You'll try.

If you can say all that without bursting into hysterics, well done.

just at all of you

droves that sure was one monumental fuck up you made letting him go now, you realise that ?

tethers I will give it my best shot.

WTF does he think you have been doing for the last three years?

Exactly.

He's an arse.

That is the best laugh I've had all week!! ARSE!!

PMSL at your arse of an ex.

I bet you feel so much better now you have his permission to move on with your life!

I should have said "<insert name of boyfriend> will be very glad to know that. I'll tell him just before I give him his next blowjob."

Or something equally profound.