That were put up on the other thread. How would I go about getting on the freedom program? I think I need to. I have realised JUST how much of what Ex-P was doing is abusive, and how confused I feel about the way he is trying to be 'nice' to me to get me back. I need someone in RL that I can go to to get some perspective on this.
I would hazard a guess that I have 'put up' with the emotional abuse from Ex-P in the same way that I ignored the physical, sexual and emotional abuse from one of my other exes.
And I would hazard a further guess that I have been almost conditioned to do so by the way my mother is. She does an amazing line in gaslighting, does my mum, which I have known for years, and thought I had dealt with the shit that resulted from my crappy upbringing - but I obviously haven't. And I want to. I don't want to keep going through cycles like this - I deserve better than this, and I WANT better than this.
So could someone tell me how I get on the freedom program please?
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