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MrsVam - it would be lovely to meet you. Don't worry about being shy - it is actually quite unnerving meeting everyone, I am sure everyone felt a bit nervous about it. But it was great fun. And it would be great talking plympics to you.

I will consider it. Carefully.

Maybe I could neck a bottle or 2 of 20-20 beforehand coming up on the train. I might be less nervous then.

Ack, don't give me that 'everyone's nervous' nonsense. Some of you are absolute babes, I've heard how stunning you are, and so out-going I think I would clock you all and run !

I just haven't got the ability to have that 'I'm a yummy mummy and I know it' attitude. Probably cos I'm not. Used to be, but have put a bit of weight on.

It's probably why I'm not sociable in RL. I'm not naturally outgoing or confident and fret about what people think of me, what I look like etc.

I think maybe I need to adopt more of a don't care attitude. I'm fine if I have a dog next to me, or my DCs. But put me on my own in a room full of people and you won't get a squeak out of me.

Stupid, I know.

Mrs Vamos just to pick up on one thing in your post, you're not the only one carrying a bit of extra weight. Honest. Maybe I'll PM you

Seriously though, at the Sept meet up which was my first, there were seriously ALL shapes and sizes, all hair colours, all different fashion senses from bohemian to slick corporate to glam-with-7-inch-heels. True, no one showed up in their trackies or anything, but we were all so different that it would have been impossible to judge.

Please come I still need to thank you properly for my Limpics name change

Oh FFS

MrsV my apologies for pm'ing you multiple times. My iPad is acting up. Therefore bedtime.

All good, Hearts.

MWAH. xxx

I never used to be this bad. It's got worse as I've got older...the lost confidence etc...

New Year and all that.....

I want to come!!

I've been to a few and always had a laugh. For some reason the two or three MNers I dislike never go, they seem to live much too far away (either that or someone else has tipped them off that I'm me and they hide...)

Don't be scared, Vamos. I am profoundly unglamorous with a face like yesterday's chip wrapping even after application of makeup.

Sorry Mrsvam, when you are very shy it must be annoying when someone speaks like a patronising tosser and says stuff like 'everyone gets nervous'.

Seriously though, it would be great if you could come along. A lot of people meet up in mini groups of 3 or 4 beforehand for a drink dutch courage rather than walking into a room of 40 odd strangers feeling like a twat.

I'v been on a spending spree today... Maybe I will show off my new shoes and
Clothes!!

Vamos - everyone wants to meet everyone else so you will always be welcomed! I have been to loads now cos I'm a bit of a meet up tart and have enjoyed every one. Come!

MrsVam if you don't come I will never talk to you again.

We must be twins then SolidGold .

I've just applied to join the facebook group - my first name has 4 letters and my surname begins with a C for whoever is in charge.

cat
BIWI
BBB
Hully
kungfupannda
SGB
Keema
FrankWippery
Hearts
Crispy
Quintessenial (NotQuint at the mo)
Getorf
Sleepingbunnies

I'd offer to help arrange, but I have no idea where anything is at all in London apart from the station that my train gets into.

You are all so lovely, I would so love to meet you all.

I really, honestly can't do a meet up this side of Christmas, but maybe in the New Year I could come to one ?

I might need to meet a couple of you beforehand, or there might be some lovely soul who has a house I could stay at (lookin' at you, Frank ) and -we I could have a few sherbets for dutch courage first ?

You know that old thing though of women who pretend to like someone then turn into cackling bitch-witches once their back is turned ?

I just hope you're all not like that. I get the impression from reports after meet-ups that you're not and it's all really good fun ?

So are we up to 13 definates??

Can we have a maybe list too?

It's catinboots BTW.

I took me boots off.

MrsVamos - I think you'll find that we're all cackling bitch-witches face-to-face!

Are you ? Really ? So if you think I'm totally different to what you imagined you'll say to my face "fuckin' 'ell MrsV, you're a bit podgier than I imagined you" or "you're not what I thought you'd look like" or "blimey, you're as socially inept in RL as you are on MN" ?

You won't wait till I've walked away ?

No. We are all absolutely lovely. Face-to-face and afterwards.

But there is a lot of cackling. That's for sure.

And a lot of drinking

Count me in for 1st December

I promised myself I would go to the next one... Even tho OH thinks it's weird to meet a bunch of strangers from the Internet....

I would like to come but rl is probably going to get right in the way Though I might be able to make an afternoon pre-meet-up-meet-up?!

hangongafuckingminute! I said I was coming on the fb thing so please put me down. If I start exfoliating and browsing the SimplyBe website tonight and smearing vaseline on all your camera lenses I should be just about presentable by 1st December.