Hi, I can't remember ever not having a bike and I am 40. I saved up and bought my first grown up bike when I was 16, and for the end of school, uni and single living in a city I rode everywhere and rode for pleasure and leisure. It was a pretty basic touring bike, but it got me London-Brighton a few times and round the the Irish Coast from Rosslare to Clare loaded with loaded panniers.
DH is a serious cyclist. When we met (I was a PhD student, he was one of "my" MSc students) I overheard him on the phone to his mate saying "I've met this girl, she's got a bike....". He does a time trial or cyclocross race every week. Lots of MTBing at weekends, sometimes with a 2 year old on board. He is a site based civil engineer, so doesn't get much opportunity to commute by bike, but is in the office this week, so he is taking advantage of that. I used to commute by bike occassionally, but 17 extremely hilly miles, ending in 4 miles of dual carriage way never really did it for me. And it takes 1.4 hours each way, which is a big commitment with childcare, even taking flexi time into account. I've done a season of cyclocross (2003/04) and got quite into track racing at the Manchester Velodrome at one point, but I am just not that competitive. Give me a nice run out - on or off road - through the Peak District any day.
I can't remember the last time we went on holiday without bikes, unless it was skis. Actually, I am not sure this situation has ever happened.
8 years ago we moved house to get a garage to house all the bikes. Excluding children's bikes, his number around 5, mine 3.
At the moment I am 30 wks pg, so havn't been on a bike for a while. But my bikes are:
1 Bob Jackson hand built to measure audax/touring bike in beautiful royal blue. Not as expensive as you think it might be and gorgeous. Fits like a dream.
2 The predecessor to theSpecialised Myka FSR (Is called the Epic Comp Designs for Women). I t is certainly worth trying women specific bikes if you get serious. It's not just about pink handlebars, the centre of gravity is tweaked, the stretches are better for women's arm:back:leg ratios and many other subtle differences. I believe only 5 were imported from the US.
3 A manky old ex-hire Dawes hardtail for dragging DS around forests and playgroups and leaving at the station.
As for clothes - you get what you pay for! I have found this out the wet, sore, hard way, Good brands are Assos, Gore and Pearl Izumi but you'll have to take a deep breath, swallow hard and consider your purchase an investment. You'll still be wearing it 5 years later and it'll still be performing well though. And again, worth trying women specific gear - narrow shoulders on jackets do they don't fill up with wind, wider cut at hips, shorter arms, better placed liners in shorts, straps in discrete boob-avoiding positions. You can't really go wrong with anything from Minx Girl. Despite big thighs, I prefer lycra bottoms to baggies, everything just glides more soothly and am a big advocate of merino wool tops. As a baselayer in winter, on their own in summer. Comfy, work well, and don't stink.