but offering no guidance or suggestions as to what they want me to do about it!
He is 28 months, does two half day sessions a week, has speech delay and is in the system. First available session with a therapist is early June.
From my point of view he is my son and if he has any SEN issues that's absolutely fine, we will go where ever the professionals advise, no problems.
However one of the care givers at the Preschool keeps pulling me aside to tell me his reactions to things are strange. She said today that she had never seen it before and it concerns her. When I asked what she wanted me to do with the information, re. how she suggested I reacted to it, she said she just thought I should know
The behaviour they are primarily concerned about is his obsessiveness with three areas in the room. Apparently he does a triangle from the computer, to the cupboards, to the outside play area. It sounds as though he does this constantly. They have tried to take him aside to do one-to-one stuff with him and today another child who is also two. It's play stuff to do with animal noises. His reaction was meant to be one of surprise, I think he was partially surprised with the moo noise, but when it came to the pig he got hold of the thing and threw it across the room. Apparent no child had ever done this before and it concerned her.
They have said I can come in to witness his behaviour and I said I am happy to. Still not sure what this will serve to do though as I certainly don't think they are lying. It's more that they are not actually suggesting or advising anything, just telling me he 'is not normal' and looking at me. Perhaps I should just say thank you!
The only thing I can think is they are trying to convince me he has an impending diagnosis coming up and they think I'm in denial or something so want to push the point home.
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Really need some advice re. Care workers at my son's preschool regularly telling me 'he is not normal'.....
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sebsmummy1 · 21/04/2015 15:55
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