OK, it's not quite that straightforward but...
DS2 gets a bus to his SN school.
(Originally they picked him up last)
Then they changed to pick him up first as they realised I was always ready & waiting for them, with DS1 (now 7) & DD (now 2.5) in the car. They asked if it would be better to get DS2 earlier, it was, so they did.
All was fine.
Now they've had the rules 'tightened' and they must pick up in order of 'near-ness' to school. DS2 is closest to school so must be the last pickup. This means that DS1 will always be late for his school. DD doesn't have to be in until a bit later (pre-sch) for now but will eventually be made late too.
We've asked if they can't do like last year and been told it's against the rules, and meanwhile the (lovely) driver is in trouble for changing her route last year :(
They think that DS2 will be on the bus for too long if he's picked up first (max is 45mins, and it would be about that).
But...he was perfectly happy with this last year.
We are happy for him to be on the bus that long.
He is happy to be on the bus that long.
The driver is happy to pick him up first.
The bus company is happy to pick him up first.
The Council seems to be in charge of the transport and refuses to change the order.
We can appeal (and in the middle of loads of paperwork) but have already been told it probably will be refused as it's not on medical grounds.
Also told that 'it's a free service, you don't have to use it, you can take him to school yourself or arrange childcare/breakfast club for the other children'
(DS1 & DD's school do not have a breakfast club and anyway even if it did, I would have to take DS2 with me to drop them off then home for the bus, which would be ridiculous and have him in a car/bus for longer anyway.)
I can't take him to school myself as the times are the same as DS1.
So, the Council are determined to make at least one of my children late for school every day.
(Oh, btw DH is away with work most of the week, of course on the rare days he's here/still here at sch run time he will help out).
What can I say to help them change their minds??
Sorry this is too long, I hope you've made it to the end! 
AIBU?
To not want the Council to make my son late for school?
JKSLtd · 09/09/2013 18:36
I have to say when I worked in Special school, the transport in the first couple of weeks was a nightmare as everyone was following the route dictated for them by the admin people who sat in offices and didn't know about all the things like individual children's behaviour, and the fact that this child's parents would be waiting, but that child would always be late, etc. The driver and guide used to just do what suited everybody on their route after that and things went much more smoothly. I suspect they didn't involve the people in the office, who thought the route was being done 'their' way, and everyone was happy 
Thanks for all your replies, I'll try and answer everything.
Purple - I haven't seen his statement for ages so can't remember if transport is exactly mentioned in it, possibly not but - he is eligible for transport in multiple ways;
higher rate mobility
lives more than 3 miles from sch
and something else i've forgotten right now.
BrokenSunglasses & Sirzy - The bus leaves from school, drives past us (ok not past our front door, but past our area, picks up the other 4, then DS, then onto school) so it shouldn't add to mileage or cost in any way that I can see.
Driver is definitely happy to do this.
BackForGood - that is exactly what has happened in the past, the drivers have realised what actually works for people and changed accordingly, within reason. I was told by the jobsworth lady on the phone that; it's not just your bus, all of the drivers are getting a slap on the wrist as they've been changing their routes to suit the families' shock horror!
And, I should add, the world has gone truly crazy; the Council now employ 'compliance officers' who will unannounced follow the buses to ensure they are following the agreed route 
Today, for eg, the bus arrived 10mins ahead of the new time, so I got DS1 to school (exactly on time as his class was going in, he joined the back of the line) - the company lady told me if the compliance people had seen that they would've gone to the company and demanded to know why - in this case they could justify it as a child was off sick at the last minute. And they would have to justify it in every instance. The drivers have been told that sometimes they will know they are being followed, other times the compliance officers will wait at a corner to check in secret , can you believe it?!
All the drivers have now been told it's a sackable offence to change route as it will lose the company the contract!
Retro & Horry- AFAIK he has to be picked up at his home address, it certainly mentions the address to where the child benefit goes (slightly outdated forms as we don't get CB anymore...!).
It is just so frustrating. Interestingly, one of the company ladies is also a Cllr but she is at a bit of a loss to help as the Council keep threatening to withdraw the contract if there's any more trouble so she doesn't want to rock the boat. She has raised it with her boss who knows what's going on and he may take it back to the Council and say come on guys, sort it out. But he can't do much either.
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