I'm opening myself up to your wrath here. I don't know what to do or if I am bu or just crazy.
I don't want to go to my mum's funeral. I love her to pieces and there were no issues between us for this to be a "I never liked you anyway" type of flounce.
But there will be lots of people I despise there. People who never cared about my mum and caused her no end of anguish. I feel like the funeral is for them not me somehow. I want to do something without them there.
Is this a bad decision? If I were to go I would have to stay at the back anyway due to toddler ds. Not taking him is not an option, I need him with me at the moment and he loved my mum more than most of the people that will be there with their fake tears.
Should I find something for ds and I to do on our own to commemorate my mum?
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StickEmWithThePointyEnd · 29/11/2012 01:28
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