Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:32:26
Like it was a youngish crowd and some bloke i'd never met before goes and 'dudettes' also???I always thought it was a uni-sex word 'dudes'.Please correct me if i'm wrong.TYIA
RobinSparkles
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:35:18
According to Wikipedia it's just slang for an individual here.
You're not wrong, but possibly slightly cringy.
Dudes is very Bill and Ted.
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:38:29
Would you mind if i said 'thanks dude' to you then Robin ?
I hate that word. My housemate walks in saying that Every. Sodding. Day. Hate it.
I think it's unisex though?
RobinSparkles
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:38:58
It makes me think of early 90s and strange air guitar antics!
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:41:31
It was in a chat room on line btw
I say Lads. With a thick Irish accent. Seems to cover all sorts.
HTH
YAWBU to use 'dudettes'!
TSC used to call everyone 'dude' on here.
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:44:08
BottomWeekly will you say that to a room full of both sexes?
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:44:49
LRD what does YAWBU mean please? TYIA
'You would be unreasonable'.
But I don't mean it entirely seriously! 
I think 'dudettes' sounds funny. And you could argue it is less feminist to take a term that isn't gender-specific and make up a secondary term that is obviously feminine to supplement it.
<nods wisely>
Cluffyfunt
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:47:07
I was thinking of TSC when I read the op.
Where is she?
I liked her.
squoosh
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:47:57
Dudes? I can only say that word if I put on a California, skater, stoner voice.
She got banned for things she shouldn't have got banned for, basically.
Not that I'm partisan.
Fakebook
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:50:27
It was an online chat room. Who cares?
Fakebook
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:50:56
Technically you didn't walk into A room of people either...
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:51:53
Thanks LRD i ended up in a bit of a barney with this bloke .I apologised because i thought i must be in the wrong i say 'sorry ladys good evening to you aswell'(whatever) then i go 'How's it going' and then he goes 'How's what going?' .I left the room WAs he being unreasonable or was i being unreasonable? We have since gone on to have a massive fight on line about this today.Your thoughts please?
nicki1978
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:57:12
I tend to just use peeps when I'm saying hello or goodbye to family and friends. Xx
Whodyanickabollockoff
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:58:49
Thanks VivaLeBeaver
.that's made me feel better , been feeling shyte about it most of the day
AnyFucker
Mon 12-Nov-12 22:59:02
I think that bloke sounds like a pedant of twatty proportions and you should tell him to fuck right off
This is the second thread I have seen this evening where the sadly-missed TSC has been mentioned 