This really weird, why suppose that anyone needs a fig leaf for voting Tory? Why would you think that people who vote Tory are ashamed of it and need a cover up? Also why assume that anyone who says “I am voting Tory because they recognise that sex is real and that penis people = men and vulva people = women” is not being honest about that motivation?
I haven’t been able to bring myself to vote Tory, I disagree with their economic policies too strongly for that but I note that their politicians are able to speak freely and retain the support of their party unlike parties of the left.
I note also that they seem to value people based on individual merit rather than identity which seems to lead to women and ethnic minorities rising through the ranks more successfully than does the identity politics, quotas and hierarchy of oppression preferred by parties of the left.