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It really varies - but as a guide, it will be less than half what you paid for it. Second hand wedding dresses are very hard to sell unless they are current season styles in a popular size and it's a bestselling design - there are probably a dozen or so very popular styles at any one time that will sell readily, others will be quite difficult to sell.