7 mo DS is the most hideously awful sleeper known to babykind. He's awake every 1.5 to 2 hours (or more) throughout the night and a feed is the only way to get him back to sleep. He will suck strongly for a good 5-10 minutes every time. It's not just a couple of sucks then drops off. He feeds 1.5-2 hourly throughout the day as well. He's generally a spoon refuser at home and will mainly play with finger foods, swallowing the odd little bit, but certainly not a sustaining amount yet. He's also a hell of a gagger still so he physically can't take in food with a lot of texture yet. In my desperation for more sleep, especially as I return to work full-time in six weeks, I consulted the health visiting team. I'm not sure this was wise as this is the advice I was given:
- He's waking frequently throughout the night because he's obviously hungry. I think there's a hefty amount of habit/comfort going on there which I did pitch in but HV says it's mainly hunger. I also pointed out that when he does a full day of nursery once a week, he will take food off a spoon there, and in vast quantities, but his sleep is no better on that night than any other. HV said he'd have to be taking in solids in that quantity every day for it to make a difference to his sleep.
- At seven months, the majority of his intake should be from solids. I should only be giving him two breastfeeds a day - one morning and one evening. I told her my understanding was that the majority of nutrition should be from milk for the first year. She said guidelines say mainly from solids from seven months.
- She said I should withhold breastfeeds to only morning and evening feeds to make him hungry enough to take more solids the rest of the day.
- I can get rid of all night feeds, using CC if need be, to also help make him hungry enough to eat more solids during the day.
Help? What? Is there any reliable RL source I can contact to get a second opinion as this is all so completely against everything I've understood up until this point...I am desperate for more sleep but I'm really not keen to starve him to get it!