Ok, here I go!
DD who is 11 has ridden ponies most of the life in an ad-hoc manner as we live semi rurally and the best friend lives on a farm. She is used to doing all the tacking up, feeding, going on a hack (if that's the right term), doing games in the field etc. We know nothing.
She never showed the level of required commitment to loan or own her own pony until this last winter, when she demonstrated this by going down to the farm every evening and helping the other girls bring the ponies in from the field and all the relevant associated tasks. Every night without fail.
So, we now loan one of the farm ponies but all concerned recognise this is short term as, while she's reasonably easy to handle and steady, if DD wishes to compete, there's only so far we can go on her. Pony hasn't competed for a long time but used to, she's a touch stroppy in this new environment and set in her ways. Good to get her used to it for a few months then we will buy our own.
So, Pony Club is new to us and effectively the pony too. We've been to training about 4/5 times and competed in a friendly once.
Said pony played up a bit last night I think. The trainers called her stroppy, ill mannered and naughty but I think tried to give DD ways to handle her. Not sure, here and need to get to the bottom of this.
The thing I can't quite reconcile in my mind is that the lead trainer threw a bottle at the pony to make her move. Surely that's not right in any capacity? I wouldn't do this to my dog and I certainly wouldn't expect one of my kids teachers to do this at school!!
DD came back from training distraught tbh, tired, in tears and worried she can't handle the pony. We are paying and have paid to date a lot of money to equip her properly for PC.
I know the pony isn't perfect but she does have a lot of redeeming features, I have painted rather a bleak picture! Surely the PC trainers should be helping her handle this, as they do at the farm using really positive methods for pony and child?
Or am I totally off tangent here? Please tell me!
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Pony Club trainer threw a bottle at DD's pony yesterday at training. Normal? New to this pony lark so please be gentle!
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needastrongone · 26/04/2013 09:46
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