While I've name changed, I thought I'd indulge...
I work as a TA in reception, today the class teacher was off sick, anxious, and therefore sometimes aggressive, ASD child (lets call them X) had no one-to-one support this afternoon (actually her never does pm!), plus several other high need DC in the class.
Today I let the children out at the end of the day, as I know the parents, and the supply didn't....get to the end of the line......no ASD child! Supply didn't know where he was . I managed to locate him....and I must have looked a bit stressed as I handed him over to parent who asked "Has he been challenging today?" I replied, yes, no one-to-one this afternoon, usual teacher off sick, all a bit unsettling.....I must have looked frazzled as the mother said "You go home and have a good rest this evening, love."
I have been known to count every second of the last ten minutes of the day before this child goes home on a Friday.....and then I think... their mother will have a whole weekend (and more) of dealing with this child.
I know she won't be having an easy time this evening, but that she was lovely enough to wish me a rest, rather than complain that momentarily no adult responsible for her child knew where her was, has actually made be sob.
Wish me luck for tomorrow with no one-to-one support for above mentioned child, a different supply teacher, several DC we suspect are un-diagnosed, but on the autistic spectrum, several DC who's English is their second language, (a couple who speak barely a word of English). And this is a suburban school in Middle England unprepared for such an intake.
I would have a stiff drink, but I need to have a clear head in the morning.
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NoIdeaWhyTheNameChange · 22/11/2012 21:28
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