Sorry this is a bit long winded. We've always had dogs up until 6 yrs ago we had gun dogs but when the last one died we decided to have smaller dogs who aren't such a massive walking commitment. We are an average happy go lucky family and our dogs reflect this; cheerful easy going and well behaved; just happy dogs. They are a large part of our family life we take them with us on walks trips to the beach etc etc and the dogs know to behave and we all mix in happily together. Coming from a farming background we care about our animals and look after them but we are not overly sentimental. We've always had two and from puppies and also always dogs. Last year one dog died suddenly at a young age leaving the other bereft without him. I wasn't mad keen on getting another puppy so approached the breed society rescue for the dog we have and was very quickly offered a bitch same age as the remaining dog owned by a breeder. I went to see her and was told that she was a little shy but she seemed friendly enough (her two companions were very in your face) I agreed to have her on a one month trial. The breeder told me she was used to children had been extensively shown but a little wary of strange men. At the end of the first month she was not shy with me and stopped barking at every minute noise/leaf falling out of a tree etc and I thought she would steadily settle down but now seven months later she has not really moved forward from this point
Frankly she's driving me round the bend. She adores me and would follow me to the end of the earth but she just about tolerates my DH but positively hates/is terrified of my teenage son. Every time he moves anywhere in the house she barks and growls day or night when she sees him she runs frantically round the two rooms they are allowed in barking and growling. If he comes on a walk with us I cannot let her of the lead as she runs off and and if he lets her into the garden and I'm not here she will not come in, the other day she sat in the rain for three hours rather than come in. She will not be in the same car as my DS either growling at him all the time (she's behind the dog guard in the boot) and trying to get out of the car. My DH cannot get near her either and if I put her on the lead she will not walk with him holding the lead unless I'm there as she panics! We all work funny hours so the dogs are never left for more than three hours but we all participate in their care/exercise/feeding etc. she will only eat if I or my DH are in the house. This is not a dog participating in family life my DS initially was very patient he's now just lost interest in her and ignores her he thinks she's just a neurotic waste of space.
I've spoken to the breeder whose not keen to have her back as she's elderly and thinks I should persevere, a friends whose extensively involved in a very well regarded local rescue thinks its just the wrong dog for us and that we should give her to them and they will try and find her a more suitable (male free) home. My only concern is that the breeder has now told me she's has had three homes in the past (she says she was ill treated by a man in one) and knowing how devoted she is to me that another move will really upset her.
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Thewomanwithnoname · 20/05/2012 23:29
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