My DS would like some words of wisdom from you wise ladies. This situation has caught us all rather unawares, and we'd appreciate any suggestions about how to handle this tactfully! Over to DS:
Hello, I have recently become friends with the 13 year old daughter of the youth worker at the local youth club but I suspect that she is taking things a bit too seriously...
I have only known her for 2-3 months and she asked me to start going out with her a few weeks ago. In my exitement (and fear of not being able to show my face at the youth club in furture if I did not oblige) I agreed to her offer. She is a nice, sweet girl who has taken a serious interest in me but as she see's me as her boyfriend, I still see her as a friend.
I thought it might work out at first, but after a trip into town with the rest of the club, things started turning a bit pear shaped. My GF's best friend 'blabbed' to the other kids about our relationship. GF broke down into tears and told me she had ruined our relationship by telling her friend we were going out. I did not know what to do and all I could do was comfort GF.
Just today, when she arrived at youth club, GF beckoned me outside so that we could talk in private. GF suddenly started pouring her heart out to me explaining how she thought that I was the only reason she was still alive and how she hated her best friend and how she hated herself for 'ruining her life'. I have found myself in an even more awkward situation!
I do not know what to do now, I am only 13 1/2 and I am already having to deal with school problems. I go to an all boys school and haven't had much experience of girls recently.
I really like her, but she just likes me even more and has rushed us into an awkward relationship but I dont want to seperate in case she has a nervous breakdown, help!!
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MrsFlittersnoop · 18/11/2009 21:34
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