I am thinking of moving to a different city. The move makes sense in many ways - reduction of mortgage (important as my current job is not secure); proximity to parents (want to be able to support them as they grow older); more stimulating environment (have lived in current town for nearly a quarter of a century and need a change).
If I don't move now I fear it will get more and more difficult eg my advancing age will make it more difficult to find a new job in target city, and moving during school years 10 - 13 will be virtually impossible due to exams.
Eldest daughter who has left home is very much in favour of move as she loves my target city. Youngest daughter, 13, is adamant she doesn't want to move. The change of school and leaving her friends are her big worries.
She will be coming back to the town where we live now fortnightly to see her dad so there will be lots of chances to stay in touch with friends. And I am determined to get her into a good school in target city - even if it means going private for a couple years.
I am 100% sure that she will settle and be as happy if not happier than she is now...
My question is - how can I support dd through this and get her to think positively about it? At the moment she won't even talk about the idea. I don't even know if I will be able to get her to visit schools with me. Thanks.
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Moving home and school - how to make it easier for 13 year old?
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neva · 02/02/2013 13:36
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